Slowing Down for Christmas: How We Shifted Our Focus Back to Christ
Why We Needed a Change
Last Christmas felt like a blur—running from event to event, checking off shopping lists, and trying to make everything perfect. But in all the busyness, we realized something was missing.
Christ.
Sure, we talked about Him and read a few verses here and there, but if I’m being honest, He wasn’t at the center of the season the way we wanted Him to be. Gifts took the spotlight, schedules ruled our days, and by the time Christmas morning arrived, we were exhausted—spiritually and physically.
So this year, we made a change. We slowed down, simplified, and focused on keeping Christ at the center of Christmas. And let me tell you, it’s been one of the most peaceful Christmases we’ve ever had.
Simplifying the Season
The first change we made? Less stuff.
We ditched the pressure of Pinterest-perfect decorations and over-the-top gift lists. Instead, we focused on meaningful traditions and creating a space that felt peaceful—not cluttered.
We even decided to simplify our space altogether. I wrote about how we organized our home in smaller areas, which made this season feel lighter and less overwhelming. (Check out my post on organizing homeschool spaces in small areas for ideas.)
Our Slim Tree:
We chose a simple, slim Christmas tree this year—and it was the best decision. It fit perfectly in our space without overwhelming the room. Decorating it felt more intentional, and it served as a reminder that we didn’t need more to make the season meaningful.
Rediscovering Advent
One of the most impactful changes we made this year was focusing on Advent.
Each day, we gathered as a family to read scripture, pray, and reflect on the promise of Christ’s coming. It wasn’t complicated—sometimes it was 10 minutes before bedtime or while we ate breakfast—but it made all the difference.
What Advent Taught Us:
- Slowing Down is Holy. Taking time to pause reminded us that the season isn’t about doing more but being present.
- Hope is Worth Waiting For. Advent shifted our focus from instant gratification to the beauty of anticipation.
- Jesus is Enough. We didn’t need bigger plans or busier schedules to make Christmas meaningful—we needed Jesus.
Scripture Reminder:
“For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given…” – Isaiah 9:6
Making Room for What Matters
We also made space in our schedule—literally and figuratively—to keep Christ at the center.
Daily Devotions Together:
We started each morning or ended the day with simple devotions as a family. Some days, it was a short prayer and scripture. Other days, it was singing a carol together or talking about what we were thankful for. (I shared more about how we prioritize rhythms in our family Sabbath practice if you’re looking for ideas.)
Unhurried Family Time:
Instead of packing our days with activities, we left room for spontaneous moments—baking cookies, going for walks, and playing board games. Those slower moments helped us stay grounded and connected as a family.
Intentional Giving:
Rather than focusing solely on what we wanted, we looked for ways to give back. Whether it was donating food, volunteering, or writing cards to encourage others, it reminded us that Christmas is about reflecting God’s love.
Lessons We’ll Carry Forward
This Christmas wasn’t perfect—and that was the point. It wasn’t about checking boxes or impressing anyone; it was about resting in Christ.
What we learned:
- Less Really Is More. Fewer gifts, fewer decorations, and fewer obligations gave us more time for what mattered most.
- Presence Over Perfection. It’s not about doing all the things—it’s about being present with God and with each other.
- Faith Is the Focus. Keeping Christ at the center changes everything—how we plan, how we give, and how we experience joy.
A Christmas Focused on Christ
This year, we set out to slow down, refocus, and make space for Christ—and it completely changed our Christmas.
If you’re feeling like the season has become more about busyness than about Jesus, I encourage you to take a step back. Simplify, slow down, and create intentional rhythms that point your heart (and your family’s) back to Him.
And if you need more inspiration on avoiding burnout and staying grounded, check out my post on stopping the cycle ofrunning on empty—because rest isn’t just important; it’s holy.
Scripture Reminder:
“Be still, and know that I am God.” – Psalm 46:10
I pray this next season is one of peace, joy, and closeness with Christ—for you and your family.