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March 30, 2020

Powerful Scriptures To Help Maintain Joy In The Midst Of Anxiety

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“The joy we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.” Russel M. Nelson

It’s taken two whole weeks for me to fully process that our normal is almost nonexistent right now. Traveling, play dates, visiting friends, or even going to church aren’t really options right now. My naturally introverted self has enjoyed the time home, but the circumstances have rattled my mind and emotions greatly. Daily I remind myself of the power of scripture and that I can maintain joy even in the midst of this chaos, my anxiety, and fears.

All of this has me in a state of anticipating bad news rather than good. Dreading updates regarding the pandemic instead of finding a positive. Even avoiding going outside altogether, because I don’t want to risk anything. It’s been tough not to let fear and anxiety propel me into a frenzy. Most information seems bleak and downright discouraging. This is not what I was hoping for in 2020…

Acknowledging the circumstances

There’s a lot happening. I know I’m stating the obvious, but sometimes you have to. Owning the reality can help things seem less stuck. If you’re like me right now you’re managing you, a partner, work situations (and their stability), school needs (how much time online do we really need?), and everything in between. Regular life didn’t stop and it’s now just ramped up with little notice.

Processing and pinpointing where things are currently has been a skill I’ve used over time. It’s like a mental anchor so I can keep moving in my journey. It’s also a reminder that just because it’s hard to find a silver lining right now, doesn’t mean there isn’t one.

Making the choice to maintain joy even with anxiety

There’s major choices being made minute by minute and hour by hour. But if you’re going to prioritize anything right now choose your state of mind. Choose your emotional anchor and choose it regardless of how you feel.

Anxiety, depression, and the weight that they carry are no strangers to me. We know each other extremely well, have sat in lofty lows, stayed silent in therapy sessions, and yet have found skills to cope and dance respectively.

They can be my go-to without any forethought or permission. So I’ve had to train my mind to take a mental path that won’t send me spiraling. Here are 3 truths I choose to anchor myself during times like this. These are mine:

  • I need to stay informed when watching media, but I don’t need to inundate myself with it.
  • There’s power in my words and my attitude. I need to believe and speak life right now (Proverbs 18:21)
  • I’m not stuck at home, I’m choosing to stay safe and keep our family safe.

Keeping the focus with powerful scriptures

…whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Philippians 4:8

Staying focused on God’s truth and positive truths in general is keeping my feet grounded. Whether it’s a sermon, podcast, or worship music I’m letting it fill my spirit.

For you it may be a running list of reminders that help you cope. Or positive mantras that you recite during a morning routine. Whatever it is, keep a positive focus. Here are some things I focus when I wake up and when I rest:

  • We are currently healthy
  • My kids love being home and my family enjoys our safe place
  • This time doesn’t have to be isolating, but it can be a time of rest and solitude
  • I can make an impact no matter how small today that will help myself or someone else
  • I love to laugh, so I will laugh a lot today.

…she laughs without fear of the future. Proverbs 31:25

I’ve read this verse many times, and it wasn’t until recently that I captured a new perspective. The proverbs 31 woman doesn’t laugh because she knows what’s going to happen or that she isn’t afraid. In fact, she can laugh because she knows WHO holds the future and she has seen Him carry her through trials before.

I know these habits are not easy, but they are my necessity to maintaining joy. Acknowledge, Choose, and Focus on what truly can anchor you during this storm. For me it’s knowing God isn’t surprised by this and He hasn’t forgotten me or those I care about. Though I don’t understand why things are happening, I do know this. I’ve seen God carry me through suicide, hopelessness, and seasons where I was very lost. So I can look at today and know it will not always be this way.

Even in my emotions, joy reminds me to seek His peace and keep pursuing it. I pray and hope you’re able to do the same. I am daily walking the fine line to maintain joy and will gladly walk alongside you friend.

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  • Jane
    March 30, 2020

    I love reading your postings, it’s like a series you’re waiting to come on to binge watch, then it’s continued til next time 😇. (Saying that with a very positive attitude) I guess because I have know you for so long, I love seeing the transformation taking place through you and in you. I love you so much Carmen and as always, wish only the best for you, Mike and the trio +. ~~Jane

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      Jane
      March 30, 2020

      Mrs. Jane thank you so so much!! It has definitely been a journey and your words mean everything. Miss you, but so grateful that you take the time to read and check on me 🙂

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  • Sharon Burcham
    March 30, 2020

    Love reading your blog. It’s so real, and I can’t wait get to spend time with you and get to know you better. I love your canvas over your bed. Sending virtual hugs your way.

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Some love doesn’t need to be loud to be deep. I’m really grateful. #sistersister
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This time last year, the Lord started challenging the thought of pausing our homeschooling journey. Honestly… I wasn’t happy about it because it wasn’t part of my plan. Even the kids weren’t fully on board at first. 🥹

If I’m being honest, part of me felt like I was losing. Homeschooling isn’t easy, and after years of pouring into our kids, I wrestled with whether putting them in school meant I had somehow failed them.

But somehow through all the emotions, questions, and transitions, we made it through their first year in school.

And wow… proud is an understatement.

Each of them shattered every stereotype people love to place on homeschooled kids. They shined bright, made meaningful friendships, adapted with courage, and walked into new spaces fully themselves.

This year reminded me that what is poured into our kids at home goes with them wherever they go. Everything we’ve prayed over them, spoken over them, and believed about them showed up in real time.

Watching them succeed didn’t make me feel like I had failed. It reminded me that this season wasn’t the end of something. It was evidence that God had been faithful through all of it. ❤️

#MotherhoodUnfiltered #HomeschoolMom #ParentingJourney #TrustingGod #GrowthInTheJourney
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If I’m being honest, part of me felt like I was losing. Homeschooling isn’t easy, and after years of pouring into our kids, I wrestled with whether putting them in school meant I had somehow failed them.

But somehow through all the emotions, questions, and transitions, we made it through their first year in school.

And wow… proud is an understatement.

Each of them shattered every stereotype people love to place on homeschooled kids. They shined bright, made meaningful friendships, adapted with courage, and walked into new spaces fully themselves.

This year reminded me that what is poured into our kids at home goes with them wherever they go. Everything we’ve prayed over them, spoken over them, and believed about them showed up in real time.

Watching them succeed didn’t make me feel like I had failed. It reminded me that this season wasn’t the end of something. It was evidence that God had been faithful through all of it. ❤️

#MotherhoodUnfiltered #HomeschoolMom #ParentingJourney #TrustingGod #GrowthInTheJourney
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If I’m being honest, part of me felt like I was losing. Homeschooling isn’t easy, and after years of pouring into our kids, I wrestled with whether putting them in school meant I had somehow failed them.

But somehow through all the emotions, questions, and transitions, we made it through their first year in school.

And wow… proud is an understatement.

Each of them shattered every stereotype people love to place on homeschooled kids. They shined bright, made meaningful friendships, adapted with courage, and walked into new spaces fully themselves.

This year reminded me that what is poured into our kids at home goes with them wherever they go. Everything we’ve prayed over them, spoken over them, and believed about them showed up in real time.

Watching them succeed didn’t make me feel like I had failed. It reminded me that this season wasn’t the end of something. It was evidence that God had been faithful through all of it. ❤️

#MotherhoodUnfiltered #HomeschoolMom #ParentingJourney #TrustingGod #GrowthInTheJourney
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If I’m being honest, part of me felt like I was losing. Homeschooling isn’t easy, and after years of pouring into our kids, I wrestled with whether putting them in school meant I had somehow failed them.

But somehow through all the emotions, questions, and transitions, we made it through their first year in school.

And wow… proud is an understatement.

Each of them shattered every stereotype people love to place on homeschooled kids. They shined bright, made meaningful friendships, adapted with courage, and walked into new spaces fully themselves.

This year reminded me that what is poured into our kids at home goes with them wherever they go. Everything we’ve prayed over them, spoken over them, and believed about them showed up in real time.

Watching them succeed didn’t make me feel like I had failed. It reminded me that this season wasn’t the end of something. It was evidence that God had been faithful through all of it. ❤️

#MotherhoodUnfiltered #HomeschoolMom #ParentingJourney #TrustingGod #GrowthInTheJourney
This time last year, the Lord started challenging the thought of pausing our homeschooling journey. Honestly… I wasn’t happy about it because it wasn’t part of my plan. Even the kids weren’t fully on board at first. 🥹

If I’m being honest, part of me felt like I was losing. Homeschooling isn’t easy, and after years of pouring into our kids, I wrestled with whether putting them in school meant I had somehow failed them.

But somehow through all the emotions, questions, and transitions, we made it through their first year in school.

And wow… proud is an understatement.

Each of them shattered every stereotype people love to place on homeschooled kids. They shined bright, made meaningful friendships, adapted with courage, and walked into new spaces fully themselves.

This year reminded me that what is poured into our kids at home goes with them wherever they go. Everything we’ve prayed over them, spoken over them, and believed about them showed up in real time.

Watching them succeed didn’t make me feel like I had failed. It reminded me that this season wasn’t the end of something. It was evidence that God had been faithful through all of it. ❤️

#MotherhoodUnfiltered #HomeschoolMom #ParentingJourney #TrustingGod #GrowthInTheJourney
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This time last year, the Lord started challenging the thought of pausing our homeschooling journey. Honestly… I wasn’t happy about it because it wasn’t part of my plan. Even the kids weren’t fully on board at first. 🥹 If I’m being honest, part of me felt like I was losing. Homeschooling isn’t easy, and after years of pouring into our kids, I wrestled with whether putting them in school meant I had somehow failed them. But somehow through all the emotions, questions, and transitions, we made it through their first year in school. And wow… proud is an understatement. Each of them shattered every stereotype people love to place on homeschooled kids. They shined bright, made meaningful friendships, adapted with courage, and walked into new spaces fully themselves. This year reminded me that what is poured into our kids at home goes with them wherever they go. Everything we’ve prayed over them, spoken over them, and believed about them showed up in real time. Watching them succeed didn’t make me feel like I had failed. It reminded me that this season wasn’t the end of something. It was evidence that God had been faithful through all of it. ❤️ #MotherhoodUnfiltered #HomeschoolMom #ParentingJourney #TrustingGod #GrowthInTheJourney
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Someone recently asked me when I realized I had experienced agape love… and honestly, my first thought was my mom and my sister.

Life has held its share of complicated chapters, and I know what it’s like to navigate distance and hard seasons. Getting older and healing has a way of adjusting the lens. Hindsight really does show you the gifts that were there all along.

This weekend we celebrated my sister’s birthday, and looking back at this photo of us as kids, I’m reminded how precious it is to grow up and realize your big sister is truly your best friend.

Some love doesn’t need to be loud to be deep. I’m really grateful. #sistersister
Someone recently asked me when I realized I had experienced agape love… and honestly, my first thought was my mom and my sister.

Life has held its share of complicated chapters, and I know what it’s like to navigate distance and hard seasons. Getting older and healing has a way of adjusting the lens. Hindsight really does show you the gifts that were there all along.

This weekend we celebrated my sister’s birthday, and looking back at this photo of us as kids, I’m reminded how precious it is to grow up and realize your big sister is truly your best friend.

Some love doesn’t need to be loud to be deep. I’m really grateful. #sistersister
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Someone recently asked me when I realized I had experienced agape love… and honestly, my first thought was my mom and my sister. Life has held its share of complicated chapters, and I know what it’s like to navigate distance and hard seasons. Getting older and healing has a way of adjusting the lens. Hindsight really does show you the gifts that were there all along. This weekend we celebrated my sister’s birthday, and looking back at this photo of us as kids, I’m reminded how precious it is to grow up and realize your big sister is truly your best friend. Some love doesn’t need to be loud to be deep. I’m really grateful. #sistersister
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Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
Wow 2016. Loving this trend

In the thick of parenting two under five.
Blogging as an outlet and genuine joy.
Left my full-time to become a teacher (I loved teaching).
Struggling to figure out ministry, marriage, and myself.
Connecting with so many other moms here that I still know today ❤️

What a time… #2016 #timeflies
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